Unschooling Doubts and Fears

You Don’t Have to Hold Your Unschooling Fears Alone.

I’ve been thinking about you lately.

Not the collective “you all,” but you — the parent listening to podcasts on your walk, or scrolling through ideas late at night, or sitting at your kitchen table wondering quietly:

“Am I even doing this right?”

And the image that keeps coming to mind is the two of us sitting together with something warm to drink, the way you’d chat with a trusted friend...not about curriculum or checklists or what everyone else is doing, but about what’s really happening in your home and in your heart.

Because unschooling can feel big and beautiful — and also heavy, confusing, and lonely.

And you don’t have to hold all of that alone.

The Fears We Don’t Say Out Loud

Parents tell me some version of the same questions again and again:

• “Am I doing enough?”
• “What if there are gaps?”
• “What if my child never gets motivated?”
• “Why does everyone else seem confident?”
• “What if I’m messing this up?”

These worries don’t mean unschooling isn't working.

They’re signs that you’re stepping away from old patterns and into something much more individualized and real.

You’re learning how to tailor everything — your kids’ education, your parenting, the way your family moves through the world. And of course that feels shaky sometimes. We weren’t taught how to do this. We were taught to follow instructions, to stay inside the lines, to match whatever “kids that age” were supposed to be doing.

But unschooling doesn’t work that way.

The only path that works for unschooling families is the one you build yourself — not a one-size-fits-all plan based on what other kids your child’s age are doing.

And if you feel that tug to compare, or that creeping sense of falling behind, that’s just the old age-based checklist whispering in your ear. It has nothing to do with your child’s real learning.

You Don’t Have to Untangle This Alone

So many parents tell me, “Is this what it's supposed to look like?,” oor “I should be able to figure this out myself.”

Needing support doesn’t mean you’re not capable.
It means you’re human.
It means you care.

And it’s why I created something new — something simple and private.