About Unschooling Mom2Mom
ABOUT UNSCHOOLING MOM2MOM
Meet Sue Patterson,
Your Unschooling Coach
Maybe you’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and asked questions online—but you still wish you could talk to someone who has actually unschooled her own kids. Someone you can tell the whole story to, who won’t assume your family looks like anyone else’s. That person can be hard to find.
Think of me as your unschooling personal trainer. I’ll listen, get to know your family, and help you see possibilities you might have missed while you were in the thick of it. I know how much it helped me to talk with moms who were a few steps ahead. Unschooling Mom2Mom is my way of offering that same kind of steady, personal support to you.

Sue Patterson is an unschooling coach, mentor, author, and mother of three grown unschoolers.

the beginnings
Why I Started Unschooling Mom2Mom
I wanted parents to have a place to learn about unschooling without worrying whether they were doing it the “right” way. Families arrive with different experiences and questions. The goal was never to trade one set of rigid rules for another, or to decide who counts as a “real unschooler.”
A few simple beliefs guided me then and still guide my work today:
- Children are curious and want to learn.
- Parents know their children better than anyone.
- Every family can shape a home education approach that works for the people living in it.
We all learn as we go, and where we start is rarely where we end up. That’s easier when we have people who will listen, share ideas, and give us room to figure things out. Unschooling Mom2Mom began as my blog and grew into a Facebook group that has brought parents together for more than 20 years. Today, it has over 48,000 members.
Our Family’s Journey to Unschooling
How Sue Learned to Relearn
We were a mainstream military family who sent our kids to school because that’s what everyone did. But school drained the joy from my happy-go-lucky kid who loved to learn. He wanted to run, play, and talk about his interests, and the classroom wasn’t a good fit.
In 1995, my kids were 6, 4, and 1. I talked with two homeschooling families on base and sent for catalogs. I didn’t have the later grades figured out, but I thought I could surely handle second grade.
When we moved from San Antonio to Anchorage, I took his school records and never enrolled him again. Within a year, we discovered unschooling.
The more I learned about how children learn, the easier it became to let go of school expectations. Over 30 years of living and learning alongside my children, I saw how much was possible when we followed their curiosity and explored life together.

How Would You Like to get support?
Wherever You’re Starting
You’re considering taking your child out of school, or you already homeschool, and the assignments and schedules are bringing the same struggles home with you. You don’t have to know exactly what unschooling should look like before asking for help.
Talk with Sue about what’s happening in your family. Get help looking at what isn’t working, what your child is showing you, and what you might try next. You have options, and a starting place doesn’t have to mean having everything figured out.
Private Coaching
with Sue
Sometimes you just need a real person to hear the whole story. In a coaching conversation, I’ll get to know your situation, help you sort through what’s worrying you, and work with you on practical next steps.
Creating Confidence Community
If you learn by picking the brains of others on a similar path, you’ll feel at home in Creating Confidence. We meet eight times a month, keep talking in WhatsApp, and share daily support through the app.
Courses & Tools
Choose from self-paced courses, focused workshops, and practical unschooling tools, including the Strewing Calendar. Purchase what you need and use it on your own schedule.
Support That Goes Beyond the Conversation
Hear directly from families who have found confidence, connection, and steady support inside Unschooling Mom2Mom.
"I wanted a coach because I needed help with my boys and unschooling. Sue was open and honest and this ultimately led to my feeling more confident. I’d recommend Sue’s coaching to anyone because she knows her stuff!"
-Tamara, Iowa
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"I was overwhelmed, confused, and had lots and lots of questions! Sue was very knowledgeable and reassuring – I was so relieved to have insight from an experienced unschooler. She has great listening skills and provided such valuable information. She removed a great deal of pressure and stress off my shoulders as well as my daughter’s. Sue helped me see that other possibilities exist out there."
- Stacy W., California
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"Sue has a flexible approach to coaching and is willing to offer a variety of different tools in order to find the one that works best for each situation. I was having some overwhelming fears, and she not only helped me work through them, she also followed up with me and supported me the day I faced them, too. Her caring compassion meant so much to me. I really felt she was rooting for me. That kind of support is priceless! I would highly recommend Sue’s coaching!"
- Cathy D., Sacramento, CA
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"Sue, you have such great wisdom and practical advice. I LOVE your relaxed approached about learning and life. You help take the anxiety out of unschooling/homeschooling."
- Vanessa, Georgia
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25+ Interviews of Sue Patterson:

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Sue brings nearly 30 years of lived unschooling experience to conferences, workshops, podcasts, parent groups, and community events.
She speaks honestly and practically about learner-driven education, deschooling, parent confidence, family connection, and the real questions that arise when families step away from traditional school.
Whether your audience is new to unschooling or ready to explore the ideas more deeply, Sue creates conversations that leave parents feeling understood, encouraged, and able to see more possibilities for their families.
Learn More from Sue
Helpful content to inform, encourage, and inspire.

Blog
Read articles about learning, deschooling, screens, socialization, teens, and everyday unschooling life.

Podcast
Listen to short episodes from Sue offering reassurance and perspective on common unschooling questions and challenges.

Videos
Watch Sue talk through common unschooling questions and share encouragement for the challenges families face.


