How DO Unschoolers Learn to Read?

Sue Patterson

Many parents are shocked to discover that kids really don't need a lot of teacher-driven, meticulously planned out curriculum in order to learn to read.

Kids learn this skill in much the same way they learned how to walk and talk and eat: they lived in an environment that supported that skill being developed and, when their brain was ready, they did it.

Unschoolers' Experiences

I'd love to collect stories from unschoolers about how their child learned to read without curriculum.

Here are a few stories of unschoolers and their learn-to-read journeys:

Who Will Teach My Child to Read? ... Sue Patterson

Learning to Read By Backing Off! ... Rebecca Taberski

Late Readers ... Paula Sjogerman

Please share your family's story in the comments!

Ready to find out more?

This Guide WILL Help You!

If you're worried about how your child is going to learn how to read without curriculum, this full color 25-page mini-magazine is what you're looking for.

  • Learn how to create a literate environment within your home.
  • Conquer your own fears about how unschooling works with reading
  • Read cutting edge research about how kids  actually  learn to read
  • Discover SO MANY practical tips to make learning how to read a smooth process for your child

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