Learning Isn't Linear - It Spirals

Sue Patterson

Wondering about Learning Gaps?

  • What if learning isn’t linear—but spiral?
  • Are 'learning gaps' real—or just system labels?
  • Can kids catch up naturally—without forcing?
  • How do unschoolers learn without falling behind?
  • What does nature teach us about learning?



Learning doesn’t follow a straight line—it spirals. In unschooling and other curiosity-led approaches, kids revisit ideas, layer understanding over time, and grow in their own rhythm. There are no permanent learning gaps, no missed windows—just an evolving journey of discovery shaped by interest, context, and timing.


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Learning Gaps? Or Just a Natural Spiral of Growth?

If you’ve ever worried that your child is “behind” or missing something important, take a deep breath with me for a moment.


That fear? It’s rooted in a system that believes learning should be measured on a straight, predictable timeline—one skill stacked on the next, in a rigid sequence.


In traditional education, children are expected to master concepts on a fixed timeline—

But that’s not how learning works in real life.


Real learning is curiosity-led, contextual, and deeply personal.
In unschooling and natural learning environments, growth happens in spirals: revisiting ideas, deepening understanding, and connecting new information when it becomes relevant.

It doesn’t happen in a straight line—it spirals.


💡 It might begin with a spark—something they hear, see, read, or imagine.

👀 That spark leads to curiosity.

🎯 Sometimes it becomes an interest—not necessarily a passion, just something they stay with for a moment longer.

🔎 They play with it, explore, connect it to other things in life.

🌀 Then? They might veer off into something new. Or dig deeper. Or pause for now.


And later—next week, next year, who knows—they may circle back, adding more layers, understanding, and depth.

That’s the spiral.

There are no missed windows.

No one is “behind.”

No “gaps” to fill unless you’re trying to match a system’s checklist.


But you’re not a system.

You’re a family.

And your child is an individual—growing and learning in their own time, in their own way.

Spirals: Nature’s Favorite Shape

Spirals are everywhere in nature—galaxies, seashells, sunflowers.

Maybe learning was never meant to be linear.

Maybe we should take our clues from nature.


Nature Doesn’t Use a Checklist


Trust that process.

✨ Lean into the spiral.

✨ You’re doing just fine.


P.S. Sir Ken Robinson speaks about our obsession with thinking in linear terms regarding education here.

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