20 Questions … About Unschooling
Sue Patterson
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Sue’s 20 Questions ... About Unschooling Game
1. What IS Unschooling anyway?
The short answer is that it’s creating an environment where natural learning can thrive. When we realize that everyone is hard-wired to learn, we stop seeing the need to orchestrate everything. It’s a Learner-focused instead of Teacher-focused approach.
- What is Unschooling here at the Unschooling Mom2Mom website.
- And also What is Unschooling
from the Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast:
(available on all listening platforms!)
2. How do kids learn what they need if we don’t make them?
This question misses a really important part - that idea that we learn best when we are interested and engaged. Coercing learning - forcing anything really - creates resistance and undermines all the internal motivations to learn something. When we “make” the kids do a thing, we create even more obstacles.
But to the part of the question that's underneath... how will they know what they need to know? This is probably the crux of everyone's fears about unschooling, right?
"OK, so I don't *make* them - how will they be prepared?"
Here's the good news! It's in their hard-wiring. All humans are curious and want to learn. It's in our nature. What we, as parents who have spent a long time in school, keep forgetting, is that Life is sprinkling interesting opportunities in our paths all the time. But we get so focused on what schools and curriculum companies say about the content and more importantly WHEN kids need to learn certain things, we feel pressure and stop noticing the learning that weaves throughout our day. I could go on and on about this!
But this podcast and the ebook I've created may help you dive in deeper: Everyting Really DOES Count
Read the transcript while you listen to the podcast!
3. Do unschoolers really have NO structure?
This is a misconception. Everyday life has a structure to it.
Waking up, eating meals, rhythms that emerge in a day… this is the start of a natural structure - not artificial like Math at 10 and Reading at 11. What if we want to do more than that?
Or it’s a day that some awesome exhibit is coming through town at the local museum.
Or it’s raining outside and our picnic plans aren’t going to happen.
Or it’s finally sunny after days of rain?
One of the benefits of stepping away from a school system (or a curriculum approach) is having the freedom to do what fits with the people in your family on that particular day.
“Having Structure” gives us some kind of false reassurance that all will be well - if we just stick with the structure! That’s from years of being conditioned not to trust ourselves and to believe that the structure of the system is more important than the needs of the individual.
Unschooling uses a loose structure that is flexible enough to accommodate all the variables that show up.
Podcast is linked here and you can read along!
4. What’s a typical unschooling day like?
Everyone really wants a formula. Something they can duplicate. But it doesn’t work like that. My family’s typical day wouldn’t look anything like yours. It’s part of truly individualizing everything. Because, when you do that, one day may not look like the next even within your own family. You want to take advantage of whatever pops up. It’s part of the adventure!
Also, remember that we have had a lot of years being convinced that there’s one right answer - or one way to get to that right answer. So the idea of actually LOOKING for a creative approach to the day can be really foreign to us! It takes a while to build your confidence.
Click to read more about this Unschooling Guide
5. Don't kids have to learn "grit" and do things they don't want to do?
Probably the answer is “yes.” And they do that whenever they’re allowed to pursue their interests. Inevitably, they will want to do something they don’t yet have the knowledge or skill to do. But because they want that end goal , they will work hard to gain what the need to get it. They’ll be developing “grit.”
But kids who are told “no” often by their parents, in the interest of developing grit and character, really are learning other things like:
- How they cannot rely on the adults in their lives
- How they will have to work around these adults to get what they want
- Maybe they will simply be told no, and shut down…. Telling themselves they have right to ask for something or that their preferences are not as valuable as the preferences of those in charge. They become conformers and People Pleasers.
Which takes me to the next question…
6. Do unschooled kids ever hear the word “No!” ?
Of course they do!
They just hear “yes” more often. “Yes” becomes the knee jerk response from the parents. Kind of like doing Improv! “Yes... and what part of this can we make happen?”
What piece of the request CAN get a “yes?”
Do they need help with a strategy to get to the end result they want?
So many of grew up with “No,” as the answer given by our own parents. And it’s understandable! We see that now. “No,” is easier. “No,” requires no thought on our part. And we’re exhausted for a million reasons. But “No,” is dismissive and demoralizing.
As Unschoolers, we want to go another direction.
7. How do they have any friends?
They meet people who share their interests by engaging in activities they enjoy. They meet people in the world and become friends. No, it’s not the friendships that come from desk proximity or whose last name shares the same first letter. But centering around shared interests gives a much better chance for a deeper friendship to be formed - more like how adults make friends in the real world.
Unschooled kids make friends more like this - because they’re living life in the Real World.
The Teens will Tell You!
I wrote a book interviewing 75 young people (from age 15-39) about what their lives were like as teens who didn't go to school. And this topic about making friends certainly came up! And they explained in great detail how they DID and DO make friends.
They answer this and 25 more questions that parents (and other teens!) worry about if they choose this unconventional option.
Grab this book - in hard copy or digital formats
- and get the reassurance you need!
8. Will Unschooling work for teens?
Absolutely! At any age, kids can switch from the school approach to unschooling. They can dive into Life - creating days that can make them happy! For so many families, this is such a relief!
Read more about Unschooling Teens...
9. How do they get a diploma or transcript?
As the Principal and Administrator of your Home School, the parents create the transcript and diploma. You’ll sign it, date it… and they’re good to go. Subjects weave through every day activities. Unschooling parents become more adept at SEEING these things - then it becomes easier to record.
Unschooling & Transcripts Mini-Course
Sometimes you need a little help translating their unschooled life into a transcript. Sue has helped lots families do this in workshops - and now it's available for anyone who needs it.
Included:
- Workshop Recording
- Workbook
- Everything Counts Ebook
10. How do they get into college?
The same way everyone else does. Usually there’s an assessment test for a community college or TAFE… and they get put into the classes that fit with their scores. They can transfer their classes to a university, and then they’re in.
Some kids choose to get an SAT or ACT book, study for the exam, and then get into a university based on the score. You can take those tests multiple times.
There’s really something to say for maturity. A kid that wants to go this route, will study and learn what they need. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that when we are looking at a younger teen… but maturity is real. They’ll get there.
Read more about how this works for unschooled teens...
11. How long should a person DESCHOOL?
It’s going to vary. There’s a formula about 1 month for every year the person was in school. So if you went for 12 or 13 years, you (the parent) will be working on Deschooling for over a year. The child less so… because they’ve gone less. But Deschooling can pop up all throughout parenting. Something that didn’t matter to you when they were 7or 8 may be a big deal to you (or lots for you to unpack) when they hit 13.
It’s always good to read and listen to a lot about Deschooling.
That way you can recognize what’s happening when certain thoughts pop into your head.
Need More on Deschooling?
I created an Unschooling Guide that can walk you through all the important information about unschooling.
12. Is unschooling just for rich people?
No. I knew someone who said,
"All anyone needs is a bus pass and a library card!"
Lots of ways exist to help a family explore the world in a more frugal way.
We have information to help you find ways to have unschooling adventures - and save money! Here:
Unschooling Mom2Mom Resources: Unschoolers and Limited Budgets
13. Can single parents unschool?
Yes. It takes some juggling, for sure. And it depends on the age and maturity of the child. It's much easier with a good support system - you may have to create one.
A lot will also depend on the communication and trust between the parents and the kids - but single moms unschool all the time.
We have collected information for single parents here:
14. How do we have balance?
I think you have to get a more big picture look at it all. It may not look very balanced over a day or two, but when you look at it over a longer span of time, a bigger arc, you can somehow see some balance.
Still, balance is overrated, I think. Some people are dabblers while others a natural deep divers. An artist maybe not need to have equal exposure to other subjects - except in how they relate to their art. The same with kids who like to build or enjoy science. You may not SEE the balance that is actually there - especially if you haven’t deschooled.
15. How do regular homeschoolers switch to unschooling?
I think when the homeschooling approach stops working, the power struggles get too intense, the gap widens between the parent and the kid… this is when parents start to think,
"Ok, tell me about this unschooling thing.”
- Start by shelving the curricula and leaning toward what the child enjoys.
- Brainstorm with them about fun things to do. Keep subjects per se, off the table… just think in terms of topics.
- Play more together.
Think of your favorite Saturdays. Live like that.
Odds are that you’ll need some support - fear makes us second-guess everything. I have options for that… the membership, a course, unschooling guides. Resources are available to help.
16. Is your house always a mess?
Yeah. The Lived in Look. We have lots of stories in our heads about OUR worth being associated with the cleanliness of our house… we have to unpack that. Lots of people live there. Lots of projects are emerging. Living a Life with Creativity and CURIOSITY is messy!
17. Do you ever get any time OFF?
This worries a lot of people. Partly, it’s a society thing we’ve had pushed pushed onto us… separating us from our kids and making mothering and parenting feel like a burden instead of a choice - that WE made.
But there are ways to get your batteries recharged. Lots of ways, really. And they don’t always require a weekend away from your life. And… if you’re having trouble connecting with your kids - which is often the case when they’re going to school or you’re pushing a curriculum - from an unschooling standpoint, that will be something to resolve.
Here's a quick overview about Unschooling and "Me Time."
18. Is Unschooling Unparenting?
No. Not at all. It’s probably the farthest from that. It’s a more engaged and more connected style of parenting. I have an article you can read that might help clarify this some more.
19. What does RADICAL Unschooling mean?
This isn’t as scary as it may sound. It’s simply incorporating unschooling principles in all aspects of your family life.
Instead of only thinking of unschooling as a method for homeschooling, radical unschoolers see how effective it is for all kinds of learning and apply it to the parenting issues as well. The word, “Radical” in this case, is defined more mathematically. It has to do with getting to the root and permeating into all aspects.
Read more about Radical Unschooling here
20. Why choose something like unschooling?
For me, it was because you only get one childhood. You have no idea how long you’re going to have on this earth… and God Forbid, they have a short life. I don’t want them to have wasted it sitting in a school room waiting for life to start!
And of course, other ideas factored in as we moved away from the schoolish way of thinking and into unschooling.
Everyone’s list is going to be different.
But we initially made the choice because unschooling...
- allowed them more time to explore their curiosities and preferences
- provided more adventures with the family and out in the world,
- gave us more flexibility to enjoy life together.
How about THAT for my 20 Questions Game with you?
Probably each topic could be a podcast in and of itself!
Some of them already are!
Past Podcasts associate with these 20 questions:
(Remember, these are only 5-10 minute audios - you have time for that!)
- What is Unschooling?
- How will they learn what they need to know?
- Structure, Schedules... and Unschooling?
- "Am I Doing Enough?"
- What About Socialization?
- Let's Talk about Unschooling Teens
- Can Unschooled Teens Get Into College?
- Deschooling... for HOW long?
- What REALLY Matters...
- Your Unschooling Nest
Enjoy your kids, enjoy unschooling, and we’ll talk again next week!
If you're looking into unschooling, it's not unusal to wonder, "How DO unschoolers learn school subjects?" or "How will they learn what they need to be successful adults if you don't go out a buy all the curriculum in all the typical subjects." The word, "successful," is going to mean different things to different people. Maybe it's about getting into college, or finding a good career. Maybe it's more about personal happiness - and the ability to fund that themselves. Last week, I hosted a free webinar for about a hundred people wondering this same thing. It's up at the Unschooling Mom2Mom YouTube channel now - please subscribe! We talked about the actual subjects that weave into a variety of everyday activities for kids. I have visuals and handouts - all the things to help you get more comfortable with this concept when you hop over to the description at the YouTube channel. (If you registered for the webinar, check you email inbox for the links.)
Sue Patterson shares what's wrong with hanging onto a little curriculum - when you'd like to full benefit of unschooling!
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Let's talk about "Screen Time." We need to shift our conversation with the kids about their love for technology and electronics.
How much IS too much - when it comes to gaming and surfing the web? Especially if you're going to unschool! Sue Patterson shares strategies for how to tackle the technology in your home!
What's the big takeaway when an unschooling mom looks back? Lean into the Love. Originally written in 2012, and now updated for 2024, Sue Patterson share's what she wish she had known... way back when.
5 Signs that it may be time for you to start unschooling!
Whether you've been homeschooling and it's not working out as planned, or you're looking for alternatives to public schools, here are 5 Signs it may be time to start homeschooling from an unschooling perspective.
Social media is in a flurry about the Pythagorean Theorem... why we learn it, how we learn it, what's the point? So I decided to ask my Robot Friend how DO we use the Pythagorean Theorem in real life. I think you'll be surprised!
While no unschooling family would be considered "typical," a few characteristics are common for those who successfully unschool. Sue Patterson solves the mystery and shares what a few of these traits are. Perfect for those who are trying to figure out how to unschool or are looking for how to create a homeschooling routine.
Spend a little time with family creating your own "reverse bucket list" - identifying and celebrating accomplishments from this past year!
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🤗💖 Deschooling can be a time for exploration and fun! Take a look at my list of activities that will help you and your kids create lasting memories as you break from from the school model of learning. Don't worry, subjects weave through all these activities. As time goes on, you'll be able to see that more clearly! 365 Fun activity topics include: ✨ Game-Related ✨ Cooking-Related ✨ Stress Relief ✨ Science Fun ✨ Fun Around the Home ✨ Creativity ✨ Technology-related ✨ Solo Activities ✨ Family Activities ✨ Community Activities ✨ Thinking of Others This list will help you through any "creativity slump!" you might have. Put #365 in the comments and I'll send you the link so you can find out more about this! Let's make this time an unforgettable experience and a fabulous transition into unschooling! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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💥 And Today!!! 🎊 My first baby turns 35! 🎉 How that's even possible when I still think of him as running around the house with his dinosaurs or cutting and taping a million contraptions. 🦕✂️🌪 Our little Mikey! 💙 @michael_the_wolfe , I'm so proud of you! I love how you've built your life exactly how you want it. 💞 You should be really proud of yourself and your ability to see the world as yet-another-thing-to explore! 🔭 I love how you approach everything as an adventure! 🌎 🗺 🧭 🥾 🥳 35 times around the sun 🌞 and you're packing it in! 🎒 Just like I knew you would. I'm glad you made it home in time to celebrate your birthday with Kathya! ✈️ 🥰 I'll bring a chocolate pie up to you soon! 🥧 🍫 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! We love you! 🎂 🎁 🥳 🎈🎉 P.S. Celebrated you on FB, now over here on IG too! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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🎓🌟 Struggling to see the educational value in everyday activities? Our Everything Counts eBook is here to guide you! 📚💡 EVERYTHING Really DOES Count! ✔️ This Everything Counts ebook offers a little coaching and then shows you how to find familiar subjects weaving throughout daily activities. So many examples - this is going to put your mind at ease! 💛 Put #Everything in the comments and I'll get the link over to you asap!Button -
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Who needs this today? Remind your friends! YOU HAVE PERMISSION to… 👣 Follow each child’s unique path. 🧠Count everything toward learning. 🛝 Play during “school hours.” 😴Sleep whenever they are tired. 🗺️Use Life Experiences as Curriculum Slow down, speed up, stay home, go out. You had permission all along! What are you going to do today??? Seriously- tell me! Share the fun! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschooledlife #unschoolersofinstagramButton -
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Historically, humans don't do well with progress. Learning to read was no exception! If you need to find a way to help your child develop skills in reading, the Unschooling Guide: Learn to Read would be a great choice. Or if you're worrying about "too much technology" - in spite of the whole world moving in that direction - the Unschooling Guide: Technology will really help you! Lots of practical advice and tips in both! Put #TechGuide in the comments below for the link. Put #LearntoRead in the comments if you're looking for more help with reading. You don't have to figure this all out by yourself! #UnschoolingMom2Mom🌻Button -
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🎙New Podcast ⬇ Finding Your People - How DO Unschoolers Find Each Other? 🔎 👀 Are you having trouble finding other unschooling families? Or maybe you’d just like to find people who don’t want to talk about curriculum all the time? This week, I'm sharing 5 ways you can find the people who are going to make this unschooling journey more enjoyable. It's so great to find others who are also working their way through their fears, deschooling their old ideas, and embracing a better life for their own family. For me, this was how I was successful unschooling my own three kids. And I want to share what worked for us - I think it will help you too! Put #NewPodcast in the comments below and I'll send you the link to listen! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2mompodcastButton -
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Sometimes BIG changes can come when parents shift how we say things! Changing the phrasing can strengthen the connection between you and your child AND shift your mindset away from being so panicky all the time! The Left column: 🚫 Fear based 🚫 Influenced by YOUR peers 🚫 Historically typical as adults often mistrust the changes that come with progress The Right Column: 💛 Shows kids you value their choices (which they interpret as valuing THEM) 💛 Flips the same behaviors to a more positive interpretation Try it! And let me know what changes you see! (This comes from the March Technology Challenge in my Membership Group!) Reach out if you have questions! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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✨I'd love to get you the unschooling support you need! 🤗🎉 Imagine how awesome it would be to have other parents around you, brainstorming and sharing ideas - and me, sharing nearly 30 years of seeing what works and what doesn't in the homeschooling and unschooling communities. 💞💞💞 Everyone is different - I can help you figure out what will work best for you and your family! 🏡 🙌 So many resources! So much support! 💥 Why do this alone?🤷🏻♀️😃 ↓ Put #Membership in the comments below and I'll get the link over to you in the DMs. 👀 💛 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2momButton -
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🌟 Time to Break Free from Traditional Schooling? 🌟 Our kids deserve more than the status quo! Whether you've had enough of the school system or that school-at-home approach to homeschooling just isn't working - let me help you find another way! 🚀 🌟 Wouldn't it be nice to talk to someone who's unschooled her own kids? 🌟 How about if they're grown, got into college, own homes and businesses? 🌟 What if you could talk to someone about what's keeping you up at night, worrying about your kids? You're in the right place because that's exactly what I do! After nearly 30 years, I know what works and what doesn't. 💡 I can help you separate the facts from the myths so you can create a truly INDIVIDUALIZED approach to learning and living with your kids. Sometimes it only takes one phone call. ☎️ Get answers to the questions that worry you. ☎️ Create a quick strategy to dealing with the obstacles you have. ☎️ Leave with a sigh of relief because there really IS an alternative! Other parents want ongoing 1:1 help, we can do that too: ✔️ Check in by phone periodically - weekly or monthly ✔️ Create a detailed strategy to overcome obstacles ✔️ Have your own private Unschooling Personal Trainer! 🏋️♀️ ✔️ Bring questions each time and I'll help tailor the advice to create a unique unschooling path that fits your kids, your family, your goals, and your learning style. I want to help you embrace a lifestyle and an educational path that really works! And it doesn't have to look like school at all! 📱 Let's talk! 🗓 Hop on the calendar - you can get the link in the bio or Put #coaching in the comments below and I'll get the link over to you in a DM. 💛 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Are you celebrating Pi Day? 🥧 Or are you into it but the kids aren’t? 🤷♀️ That’s what I’m talking about on the podcast this week - but I just made a video about it too. 🎙️🎥 I have to admit, I’m a little too excited by my opportunity to put in so many memes! 😂 Let me know what you think of it. 🗣️ And if you want the link to the video, put #PiVideo in the comments and I’ll get you the link! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingpodcastButton -
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🎥 New Video Today! Let's do a Reality Check on Pi Day! 😉 🥧🍒🥧🫐🥧🍫🥧 I'd love to hear what you think of today's video - I may have gone overboard on my love of memes! What do you think? Also... are you making pies today? Or are you over it? Put #PiVideo in the comments below and I'll send you the link! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #pidayButton -
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I know. You KNOW!😂 I've been reminding you for a week! But there are even MORE reasons to celebrate every day than this! Each month, we create a printable calendar with a different idea for each day of the month! And then on Sundays, I send out an email with EXTRA ideas for each of the upcoming days in the week ahead, including links so you don't have to go looking around for the info! This is such a great tool for helping kids expand their world a little! Some families print the calendar and then have the kids circle the days they don't want to miss.... like Parfaits for Breakfast 🍨or Dolphin Day! 🐬 At only $5/month (less if you buy the annual subscription) - this is a FABULOUS deal! Put #calendar in the comments below and we'll get the link over to you in DM. And hop over to the blog for more resources to help you celebrate Pi Day Today! Put #PiDay in the comments for the link. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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"Self-education is, I firmly believe, the only kind of education there is." ~ Isaac Asimov Deschooling Society #deschooling🌻#unschoolingmom2momButton -
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Pi Day is in a couple of days... Maybe you need some suggestions for yummy ways to mention it to the kids! If you're looking for funny memes about Pi Day, I have a blogpost with over 85!!! I won't deluge you here! But you can access it and share it with the kids. I can send the link if you put #PiDay in the comments below. #unschoolingmom2mom.com🌻Button -
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🎥 NEW VIDEO UP! 🎥 About That Term: Screen Time How are you feeling about your kids and their technology these days? 😬 After the Technology Webinar on the 1st, I realized I hadn't addressed this aspect of the topic! So, here's a little 6-ish minute video I made for you. Let me know what you think. You can hop over to YouTube and find me at... Unschooling Mom2Mom. Or put #Videolink in the comments below and I'll DM it over to you! P.S. I'm trying to drive up my "watch time" on YouTube so I can embed links in the video. It really helps me if you watch the videos, leave comments, click on other videos that I've done - you know, all the things! Just thought I'd let you know. 😉 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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This week was National Sons Day and I missed it! Love you, Mikey!! 💖 @michael_the_wolfe @minipaintadventure #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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TECHNOLOGY! and Unschooling! 😬 How do we figure out how to manage our days? Get this Guide to learn how to stop the power struggles and overcome your fears about technology! ➡ Discover what they're learning. ➡ Reframe tense situations ➡ Answers to your questions As parents, we make a lot of mistakes when it comes to helping our kids learn to navigate this technology. Learn what little changes you could do to make a huge difference! Put #TechGuide in the comments and I'll get the link to this Unschooling Guide over to you in your DM. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Ready for the March Unschooling Question of the Month? It's the topic everyone is worried about - KIDS & TECHNOLOGY! 💻 📱 🎮 🕹 ⌨️ 🖥 It's up at YouTube now! 🎥 If you're on my email list, you'll have the link for the recording and the Free PDF I made to go with it! 🙋🏻♀️ If not, put #webinar in the comments below, and I'll send links to you through DM. 💌 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Nothing like a Meta hiccup to remind us that we're all on rented land here! 😳 Whether various social media platforms come or go, your unschooling (or even almost-unschooling) journey continues on, right? 👣 And knowing that life, learning and parenting is kind of a roller coaster🎢you'll need support along the way. Sometimes more, sometimes less. ⚖️ I don't expect everyone to join my membership group for the hand-holding from me and community support from other unschooling parents... 💞 But I DO want you to be successful at unschooling. 💪 AND, I know that there's such a push toward status quo, conforming, getting curriculum, and doing what's familiar. 😖 📚 🏫 💌 I want to offer this free email list to you so you have a lifeline when you need encouragement. 🛟 And today's little Meta glitch, reminded me that we may only be connected over here. 🤷🏼♀️ 🙋🏻♀️ Put #email in the comments below and I'll send you the link to sign up for my free emails. 💌 1-2 emails per week - no biggie! 💁🏼♀️ #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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New Podcast Up Today! I have some ideas and strategies to help you if you're worrying about your kids on their devices. Put #PodcastTech in the comments below and I'll send you the link to listen! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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March is here! 🍀 🎨 Could your creativity use a boost? ⏰ Maybe a *little* structure in your learning? 🗓 This calendar works for kids (and adults!) of all ages! It's simply a celebration for every day of the month. ✨It's a perfect example of how the learning and fun all weave together! The calendar focuses on one topic each day and we'll send you links to help you dive deeper! 👩🏼🏫 Relaxed homeschoolers who aren't ready to unschool find the ideas perfect and love the private portal with subjects identified for every day! 🙋🏻♀️ Parents still knee-deep in deschooling will appreciate the private webpages that show all the subjects that are associated with each celebration. (I'm determined to help you all see through this unschooling lens! The learning is there - we just have to notice it!) Only $5/month! 👀 💥 Available in 6-month and 12-month subscriptions 💥 INCLUDED in the Creating Confidence Membership. 💥 1 month free when you purchase the Jumping Into Unschooling Course Perfect for families who are feeling disconnected or wondering if they're doing enough, Life DOES provide so many opportunities to learn! 🤔 👇Put #calendar into the comments and we'll get you the info over to you. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2momButton -
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🗓 Unschooling Question of the Month! ❓ Tomorrow - March 1st! 1 PM CENTRAL And everyone's favorite topic: TECHNOLOGY! 💻 🤳🏼 What are you afraid of? 😬 Send me the questions you have and we'll try to get to them all. ⬇️ Some I've received so far: 🙋🏻♀️ "How can unschoolers say 'no limits' to screentime?" 🙋🏼♂️ "What if that's all they want to do?" 🙋🏻♀️ "Aren't you worried that they need more BALANCE in their lives?" 🙋🏼♂️ "What happens when *I* can't stand their games?" 🙋🏻♀️ "What about dopamine addiction or dysregulation???" What would you add? We'll have another free PDF handout for you at the webinar - and yes, if you register but can't make it, I'll send you the links to the recording and the PDF. Put #MarchQuestionin the comments below and we'll send you the Registration link via DMs.Button -
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📚🔒 If unschooling your teen makes you nervous, don't worry! The Unschooling Teen Toolkit has got you covered! 🎉 Get all the resources you need to make unschooling a success for you and your teen. 🤩 You really don't have to duplicate school! 🔸Unschooled teens get into college. 🔸Unschooled teens are exploring their interests and curiosities. 🔸Unschooled teens are learning life skills they'll really need as adults. 🔸Unschooled teens are getting enough rest. 🔸Unschooled teens are finding joy again in the process of learning! If you're wondering how this can be, you'll want this Unschooling Teens Toolkit. It will give you the answers - and the directions - you're looking for! 6 Ebooks/PDFs included: ✔️Homeschooled Teens: 75 Young People Speak about Life without School ✔️Everything Counts ✔️Unschooling Your Teen ✔️120 Life Skills for Transitioning into Adulthood ✔️75 Ways to Connect with Your Teen ✔️Creating a Transcript Workbook Reach out if you need more help - you don't have to do this alone. Put #Toolkit in the comments below and I'll send you the link. #UnschoolingMom2Mom🌻 #homeschooledteens #homeschoolingteens #unschooledteens #parentingteens #parentingteenssolutions #parentproblems #parentingsolutions #parentsoftweensandteens #unschoolingmom #unschoolingmom2mom #homeschoolingmom #unschoolinglife #unschoollife #unschoolers #unschooling #unschooled #homeschoolmom #homeschool #HomeschoolingButton -
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🎉🎂 Happy Birthday to my incredible middle child, Katie! 🎂🎉 Today, we’re celebrating from afar! But I know you’ll enjoy your traditional Birthday Breakfast of cream puffs and raspberries! (PLUS Pancakes -because it’s the celebration of the day! 🥞) I wish I could be there with you!!!! 🥰 I’ve loved seeing your Birthday week filled with fun! 💞🪓 You are NOT forgotten as the middle child! I promise! 🥰 You are cherished more than you could possibly even know! Your heart is so big, filled with love, empathy, and endless kindness for anyone in your path. 💖 I want to let you know how proud Dad and I are of you, out there pursuing your dreams with unwavering dedication and persistence! Your talent knows no bounds and I’m excited to see where your journey in the acting world takes you next. 🌎💫 May your birthday today be filled with love, laughter, and fun! 💖😂🎉😹 Here's to another year of countless blessings, success, and joy! 🌟 Happy Birthday, Katie! @actorkatiep 🎈🎁Button -
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🗓 Unschooling Question of the Month! ❓ Friday - March 1st! 1 PM CENTRAL And everyone's favorite topic: TECHNOLOGY! 💻 🤳🏼 What are you afraid of? 😬 Send me the questions you have and we'll try to get to them all. ⬇️ Some I've received so far: 🙋🏻♀️ "How can unschoolers say 'no limits' to screentime?" 🙋🏼♂️ "What if that's all they want to do?" 🙋🏻♀️ "Aren't you worried that they need more BALANCE in their lives?" 🙋🏼♂️ "What happens when *I* can't stand their games?" 🙋🏻♀️ "What about dopamine addiction or dysregulation???" What would you add? We'll have another free PDF handout for you at the webinar - and yes, if you register but can't make it, I'll send you the links to the recording and the PDF. Put #MarchQuestionin the comments below and we'll send you the Registration link via DMs.Button -
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"There is always light, if only we're brave enough to see it. If only we're brave enough to be it." Amanda Gorman wrote and shared this but she could have easily been talking about unschooling parents! It can be tough to choose something different. It DOES take some bravery. But you can do it! And you have an entire unschooling community around you here to help you along! Reach out if you need more help from me! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Hard to believe, but 30 years ago today, the world and I welcome my baby, Alyssa Jane. 🎈✨ Time has flown by. ⌚ I am so immensely proud of the person you've become, not just as my daughter, but as a compassionate, driven, and kind-hearted individual. 💖 From the moment you came into this world - like a rocket 🚀👶🏼 - you've continued to propel yourself forward at the fastest pace possible, leaving a trail of brilliance in your wake.💫 I’m often astounded at all you’ve accomplished - before even turning 30! Most of all, though, I’m so proud of how you mother Jackson - for nearly 9 years now! So patient, understanding and protective (Mama Bear level of protection - it’s the Alaskan in you!🐻 ) This fills my heart with immense joy. 💕 This past decade has shown how you’ve faced challenges head-on, embraced opportunities with open arms, and emerged stronger and wiser with each passing day. It's inspiring to watch you show the world that you're capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. 💪🌟 So here's to bidding farewell to the past and embracing the future with open arms. 🤗💖 May your thirties be filled with boundless opportunities, endless adventures, and an abundance of joy, love, and success. Your dad and I will be here to cheer you on every step of the way. 🎊💞 See you at the airport! 🏝️🛬 @lyssa.janee @theblonde.ish #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #turning30isntsobadButton -
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Can you relate? Do you have any good suggestions? Let it go? 🎶 #UnschoolingMom2Mom🌻Button -
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The Unschooling Question of the Month for March (next week!) is TECHNOLOGY! Truth is, that unlocks a lot of questions - so let me know in the comments below - what do YOU want to talk about? Limits/No limits? 🚫 Cost/benefits? ⚖️ Power struggles? 💪 Dealing with judgement? 😬 Addiction? 😵💫 🤷♀️🤷🏼♂️🤷♀️🤷🏼♂️🤷♀️ #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Are you ready to jump into unschooling but you're wishing someone could hold your hand a little bit? 🤝 🙋♀️ I can do that for you! 💛 Here's my course to ease you into unschooling through videos, links, PDFs - even bonus books and guides. 📚🎦📝 This step-by-step approach will help you create the foundation you need to be successful at unschooling. 1️⃣2️⃣3️⃣4️⃣ Imagine how many missteps you can avoid when you have someone walking along with you on these early steps!😅 I'm excited for you to begin your unschooling adventure! Let's do this - TOGETHER! 💞 Read more at the website and sign up today! ✅ Put #TheCourse in the comments below ⬇️ and I'll send the link over to you in DMs. 📩 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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💡Be more of a Tour Guide than a School Teacher! The world is full of so many opportunities to explore! 🌎 Plan “Field Trips” not “Lesson Plans” 🚗🗺️ What fun things are you making time for? 🤿🎯🎳🧩🎮⛺️🍿🎥📚 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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One day only!!! 🎊 It’s my birthday 🎂- so let’s have a FLASH SALE! 💥 Special deal for getting into my membership! Save nearly $150 on the annual membership! The current annual membership is a great deal - but today even better! You’ll get 6 months for the price of 12!!! 🙌🏼🥰🤑 But it’s over at midnight! New, current, & returning membership people - anyone can access this! Put #BirthdayDeal in the comments and I’ll DM the link to you!!! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Living our best lives, right?😄 And if you're not - you could be! ✔️ Choosing to unschool makes room for being comfortable in your own skin - your kids AND you. 💞 Imagine what it could be like to have COMFY DAY every day? 🤗 Oh! And if you didn't KNOW it was Comfy Day, you should subscribe to our Strewing Calendars! 🗓️ We let you know something fun for every day of the week! ☀️ Put #calendar in the comments below and I'll send you a link in DMs with more info. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #strewingButton -
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🎂 Today is My Birthday! 🎉 💓💓And because my all-time favorite thing in my coaching business is my Creating Confidence Membership group, I want to offer a ONE DAY ONLY deal! 💓💓 I just thought of this yesterday, so there's no big "launch" or Business "roll-out" kind of thing. (I never know how to do those anyway! lol) 🤦♀️ Normally, the membership is $49/month. You can get 2 months free when you buy the annual package. 😲👏 🎉 BUT TODAY! To Celebrate!🎉 I'm offering something even better! 🙌🙌 You can get into the membership group for a YEAR for only $348. That's only $29/month! 😲🫶 I have parents in there since 2016 - so it's worth it! 💞 And - you deserve the support! 🤗 Unschooling is (obviously) not "the norm." Lots of external push-back and internal fears can make it harder than it ought to be. But all that is SOO much better when you're in this group with my FABULOUS unschooling community. So many resources, so much support! 💞 🙋♀️So if you've been thinking about it, today's the day! I've never done this before and - I'd LOVE to see you in there with us! 💝💖🥰 💥24 Hour Flash Sale! 💥 ⬇️ Put #BirthdayDeal in the comments below and I'll send you the special link. 💌 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Listen to Oprah! Make the choices you need to make because it's BEST for YOUR kids and family - not because other people say you need to do what they do. Do you have trouble with this? Other people trying to "write your script" for you? I seemed to have that more when I was younger - probably because I was often asking for feedback/direction! It's interesting because, after all those years in school, I was USED to other people telling me what to do - no wonder I felt unsure of my self. But as you get older - and the more you do it - the more your confidence grows, right? I really am curious about your experiences with this. Tell me in the comments!Button -
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Are you tired of the same old math struggles? It's time to try something new! I'm sharing all the "secrets" of how unschooled kids learn math without a curriculum, a scope and sequence or a lesson plan! Take this course and you'll be able to shift your perspective on math - and help the kids do the same! You'll be so glad you did! Put #unschoolingmath in the comments below and I'll get the link to more info over to you in DMs! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2mom #unschoolmath #homeschoolmath #EverydayMathButton -
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Not everyone likes Valentine's day, but this is a day EVERYONE can enjoy. 😊 Have you grabbed your discount chocolate? What's your favorite brand? Let's do a Poll! 🍫 Which do you prefer: 🖤 Dark Chocolate 🤎 Milk Chocolate 🤍 White Chocolate ↓ Tell me in the comments. I'm not a huge white chocolate fan. 🤷🏼♀️Button -
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📚 Worried about Unschooling Your Teen? 🤔 Sue Patterson's book has got you covered! 🌟 Discover all the answers to your burning questions as Sue dives deep into the world of teenagers who didn't go to school. She addresses all the concerns parents often have. 🔍 How will they learn what they need? 🔍 How will they make friends? 🔍 Will they get into college? 🎉 Find out about the experiences of 75 young people who have walked this path, answering 25 critical questions just like these. 🗣️ They share firsthand what their lives were like, embracing this unconventional approach to education. 💬 Get inspired by their stories and gain valuable insights directly from those who have lived it! 📖 Homeschooled Teens has the reassurance you're looking for! You really don't have to switch over to the familiar school approach! Put #Book in the comments and I'll DM the link over to you to read more about the questions as well as see all the testimonials and endorsements - and GET THIS BOOK! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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So... I did a thing... 😁 ⏰ Last minute. 🎙Bonus Podcast. I found something I had written for the Unschooling Blog Carnival back in 2012. I've edited it a little and I think you'll find it really inspiring. 💝 Think of it as my little Valentine gift for you! Listen at any of your favorite platforms - and you know I'm still trying to drive up my YouTube numbers so it's over there too. (I'll get more bells and whistles when I hit 3K watch time hours - so you know I'm all about that!) Anyhoo... Put #Bonus in the comments below and I'll dm the link to you!. You can also read it at the Unschooling Mom2Mom blog. It's all linked in the bio. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️Remember this one thing... it all boils down to Fear or Love. Everything. Let's try to move more to Love - I can help you if you're struggling. xoxo, Sue #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2mompodcastButton -
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❣️ Just wanted to pop in to wish you a happy Valentine's Day! Hope your day is filled with love!❌ ⭕️Button -
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🎙 New Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast this week! ♥️ Valentine's Day is just around the corner! And how doe that relate to unschooling, you ask? That's what I'm talking about in this week's Unschooling Mom2Mom podcast! Here's your weekly peptalk to help you connect more with your kids and show them awesome ways to learn! 😍 💝 Get activity ideas at the blogpost! 💝 Put #Valentine in the comments below and I'll send you the link to listen! https://youtu.be/NxdGoFpJiKA?si=GhXxmrFeUjPJz-0qButton -
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🎙 New Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast this week! ♥️ Valentine's Day is just around the corner! And how doe that relate to unschooling, you ask? That's what I'm talking about in this week's Unschooling Mom2Mom podcast! Here's your weekly peptalk to help you connect more with your kids and show them awesome ways to learn! 😍 💝 Get activity ideas at the blogpost! 💝 Put #Valentine in the comments below and I'll send you the link to listen! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2mompodcastButton -
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🎉✨ Happy Chinese New Year! 🧧 🗓️ Join the festive fun with your kids and make this Lunar New Year extra special. Help them learn more about their own birth year and zodiac animal! 🐾 🏮Embrace the rich traditions, share delicious treats, and create lasting memories with your family. 🥳👨👩👧👦 This is the Year of the DRAGON 🐉 , and is said to be a time of visionary leaders, innovators, and problem solvers. 2024 is predicted to be a great year to start new projects, explore new opportunities, and create value for yourself and others. 🐭🐮🐯 🐇🐒🐉🐶🐍 🐑🐓🐷🐐🐴 Drop your zodiac animal in the comments and let's celebrate together! 🎊 #ChineseNewYear #FamilyTraditions #YearOfTheDragon] #FamilyCelebration 🧡 I'm from the Year of the Ox! 🐂 My kids are 🐍🐶🐑 And my husband is 🐇 My family had so much fun going to San Francisco one year to celebrate the Year of the Dragon!! 🐉 Have you ever done that? Happy Spring Festival!!Button -
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🎙️New Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast/blogpost for you today! 💥 A lot of parents are noticing that what they're doing isn't working, but aren't really sure what the next steps should be. Should you just hunker down and try harder? Or ditch that approach and try something else? And, maybe... it time to really look at unschooling? OR... A lot of people are already unschooling... kind of. And if you and the kids are experiencing any of these five signs, it's probably YOUR clue that it's time to shift... something. Don't throw in the towel on unschooling, do the opposite! Really learn MORE about unschooling and deschooling and see where some changes are needed. I can help you. So that's what I'm talking about this week. I have a pretty bad headcold, but I recorded anyway! Hopefully you won't mind my voice! Put #5signs in the comments below and I'll DM the link over to you! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2mompodcast #homeschoolburnoutButton -
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Are you feeling overwhelmed about translating your child's education into an acceptable transcript for getting into college or starting a career? I've got you covered! 🙌 My Unschooling and Transcripts workshop is still accessible to everyone in as a convenient mini-course." Say goodbye to worries and hello to a stress-free unschooling experience! With my course, you'll learn how to turn everyday life into a standard-looking transcript with ease. The course includes: 🎥 Video recording of my live workshop, 📘 Comprehensive 28-page workbook filled with innovative ideas, examples, and suggestions, 💥Bonus "Everything Counts" ebook. Don't let the fear of the academic world bring you down. Equip yourself with the essentials and boost your confidence with this mini-course as you guide your teen towards a successful future. Embrace the journey together! Put #transcripts in the comments below and I'll send you the link! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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"...but discovering that all of the energy we’d ever used on fighting our children, cajoling our children, begging our children, coercing our children could go instead into finding solutions with them was more than a breath of fresh air." ~ Jan Fortune-WoodButton -
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🎓🌟 Struggling to see the educational value in everyday activities? Our Everything Counts eBook is here to guide you! 📚💡 EVERYTHING Really DOES Count! ✔️ This Everything Counts ebook offers a little coaching and then shows you how to find familiar subjects weaving throughout daily activities. So many examples - this is going to put your mind at ease! 💛 Put #Everything in the comments and I'll get the link over to you asap!Button -
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This Month's Unschooling Question of the Month webinar is ready for you! Put #webinar in the comments below and I'll get the link to you in your DMs! AND! I think I've hired a video editor, so yay!!!! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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We love these ice cream pint cozies from @heatherstreasurefix We tried to do a good video to show it off, but we kept messing up. 🎥🎬 Even though this is more bloopers than “valuable video”, go get some of these! As Alyssa @theblonde.ish says, “Your fingers will be grateful!” 🥶 The lip balm you added is fabulous, Heather! Thank you!!! ❤️ #pintcozy #pintcozies #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #supportsmallbusinessButton -
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Welcoming contributions from unschoolers and radical unschoolers! Put #facebookgroup in the comments and I’ll send you the link! @i.am.natasha.allan shared: The Unschool Post is for families and children who live and embody the principles of Unschooling. The Unschool Post was inspired by the idea that our loved ones and those we meet along the way usually don’t know how to speak with our unschooled children. They get stumped when the go-to’s “how was school” or “what’s your favourite subject?” don’t apply. The Post celebrates and will shine a light on the magic of the unschooled life offering much to chat about with our unschooled kids; reflecting what unschooled children are passionate about, what lights them up in this moment without curriculum or any schoolish learning involved. Showing that kids can and do flourish when supported to learn and explore who they are and what matters to them in their own time, their own way. It will offer a sense of community for our unschooled and radically unschooled kids. They will have the opportunity to see what other unschooled kids are exploring and excited about from around the world and maybe get inspired by what another has shared! Please join us in the FB group The Unschool Post for more info on how to contribute! ____________ #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschooledlife #unschoolersofinstagram #unschoolinglookslikethis #unschool #unschoolingfamily #unschooling #unschoollife #unschool #unschooled #unschooler #newunschoolerButton -
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Is the Curriculum not working? 😭 So many parents blame themselves!😥 But it’s more likely that you’re still trying to duplicate the school ways - ways that didn’t work there either! Learn more about unschooling! 🤯 Ask questions! 🤔 If you’re not sure what to do, tell me in the comments ⬇️ I can point you toward unschooling resources that can really help. 💖 You DO have options! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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February is here! 💕 🎨 Could your creativity use a boost? ⏰ Maybe a *little* structure in your learning? 🗓 This calendar works for kids (and adults!) of all ages! It's simply a celebration for every day of the month. ✨It's a perfect example of how the learning and fun all weave together! The calendar focuses on one topic each day and we'll send you links to help you dive deeper! 👩🏼🏫 Relaxed homeschoolers who aren't ready to unschool find the ideas perfect and love the private portal with subjects identified for every day! 🙋🏻♀️ Parents still knee-deep in deschooling will appreciate the private webpages that show all the subjects that are associated with each celebration. (I'm determined to help you all see through this unschooling lens! The learning is there - we just have to notice it!) Only $5/month! 👀 💥 Available in 6-month and 12-month subscriptions 💥 INCLUDED in the Creating Confidence Membership. 💥 1 month free when you purchase the Jumping Into Unschooling Course Perfect for families who are feeling disconnected or wondering if they're doing enough, Life DOES provide so many opportunities to learn! 🤔 👇Put #calendar into the comments and we'll get you the info over to you. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2momButton -
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Want to chat with me on Friday at the free Unschooling Question of the Month webinar?# Put #webinar in the comments and I’ll get the link over to you! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingquestionofthemonthButton -
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Did you know you could listen to 17 Podcast Interviews with me over on Spotify? It's all on a playlist! 🎧 Each of the interviewers had a little different angle on unschooling, so I think you'll like them all! 🗣️🎙️ Let me know if you've listened to any of these? 💓 @brightandbeautifulpodcast @storiesbeginathome @letemgobarefoot @sage.family @abundantlife8 @honeyimhomeschoolingthekids @theunschoolfiles @exploringunschooling @getmorepodcast There have been others, but these are all I'm seeing at Spotify! Put #spotify in the comments below and I'll get you the link to the playlist over there! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Already time for another First Friday Free Webinar! When parents (you?) are moving from a more traditional approach to a more unconventional way of educating and living with kids, does unschooling take it just a little too far? What say ye? Join me on the webinar and we can talk about this more! 1pm Central time! Put #webinar in the comments below and I'll send you the sign up link. As always, I'll have a Free PDF for you (and all you worksheet lovers!) #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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And it wasn’t even 9:30 yet! ✅ Busy week ahead in Unschooling Mom2Mom world! Have you listened to the podcast? ☕️🎙️🐕🦺🚗📧🗣️👋🏼 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #likeabossButton -
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New Podcast! 🌻🎙️ All because of something I saw here on Instagram! 👀 Listen on your favorite podcast platform - or I'll send you a link. It's up on the Unschooling Mom2Mom YouTube channel. 🖥️ ⬇️ Put #Link in the comments below and I'll DM it over to you. I even have 75 ways we actually ARE using this Pythagorean Theorem! Who knew? 🤖 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschooling #unschoolingmath #homeschoolmathButton -
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💥❄️ Every January I put the Jumping into Unschooling course on sale for $99! 🎉🔥 If you’d really like to understand how to make this educational path better for your family, 👣 overcome your fears 💪 AND enjoy your lives together, 🏡💞 this is what you need! 💖 🗓️ Only a few more days left in January, so don’t miss the good deal! 😬 Also, it may be good to learn how unschooling could work now, so you avoid costly curriculum purchases/mistakes 💸 this spring when everyone starts talking about it again. Get some clarity! 👀🤔 👇🏼 Put #drewbarrymoreinterview CourseSale in the comments and I’ll send you the link. 💥Use the Discount Code: 99 💰 Happy Unschooling!✨💡 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolersofinstagram #unschoolButton -
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Real Life over here… Not much need for the Old Gray Truck anymore. Feeling sentimental… but a $200/month savings on insurance is kinda nice. Happy to donate it to a radio station we’ve loved for decades now. @kmfaclassicalButton -
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I love this little guy! Let's borrow from their confidence - even if we have to fake it a little, and set those fears aside! Just for a little bit. 💪 🦇 😂 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2momButton -
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💁♀️ Let me show you how unschooling could really work for you! 🙌 This self-guided course we'll defintely jump start your journey, get you the information you need, and help propel you to where you want to go! 👣 We've got a special deal for the month of January. 🗓️ So don't miss out! 👀 Normally $149, it's now $99! Save $50!!! 💥 Discount Code: 99 Put #CourseSale in the comments and we'll send you the link. ⤵️Button -
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Unschooling can seem so scary at first. 😬 ✨But those fears fall away the more you do it. 🤔 Remind yourself that this can be an EXPERIMENT! 🧠You’ll learn what you can - because this traditional way for educating and living with your kids is NOT working out great! 🤷♀️But you can always go back to what you’re doing now. You don’t need to see way down the road - you just need enough courage for that first step! 👣 DM me if you need help! I have all sorts of free and paid options for you. You’re not alone! 💖 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Unschooling Parents are So Creative! Look at what one of my membership group members created this morning after listening to this week's podcast! So gorgeous, @smashattackash If you want to listen to the podcast or read along at the blog, put #podcast in the comments and I'll get the link over to you! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2mompodcastButton -
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New Podcast This Week! I have SEVEN traits that I think you'll want to know about. Listen on your favorite unschooling platform or put #Podcast below and I'll get the link over to you. (It's written up as a blogpost at the website if you'd like to read along!) #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschooling #unschool #unschoolinglifeButton -
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📚 Worried about Unschooling Your Teen? 🤔 Sue Patterson's book has got you covered! 🌟 Discover all the answers to your burning questions as Sue dives deep into the world of teenagers who didn't go to school. She addresses all the concerns parents often have. 🔍 How will they learn what they need? 🔍 How will they make friends? 🔍 Will they get into college? 🎉 Find out about the experiences of 75 young people who have walked this path, answering 25 critical questions just like these. 🗣️ They share firsthand what their lives were like, embracing this unconventional approach to education. 💬 Get inspired by their stories and gain valuable insights directly from those who have lived it! 📖 Homeschooled Teens has the reassurance you're looking for! You really don't have to switch over to the familiar school approach! Put #Book in the comments and I'll DM the link over to you to read more about the questions as well as see all the testimonials and endorsements - and GET THIS BOOK! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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If you want to dive deeper into how testing and unschooling works, I have an Unschooling Guide that will help! Put #testingguide in the comments below and I'll get that over to you asap!Button -
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New Video up at YouTube! I'm sharing 3 things successful unschoolers know about a typical day in the life of unschoolers! Don't miss it! Put #ditl in the comments below and I'll get the link over to you asap! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolinglifeButton -
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Ya'll!!!! 🎉 I'm so excited about this! 🗣 🙋🏻♀️ Are you more of a YouTube person or a Podcast person? DM me and I'll send you the link to all 126 episodes NOW UP at YouTube! 🖥 I'm so excited that more people will learn that unschooling really does work! 🙌 And even how to overcome some of the inevitable bumps in the road! 🚧 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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🎙→🖥 Podcasts at YouTube!!! I'm so excited to have another place to share my podcasts. YouTube has now made it super easy for me to AUTOMATICALLY share them all from here forward. AND all 126 episodes are up right now! Have you been over to the Unschooling Mom2Mom channel at YouTube? Liked/subscribed/all the things? 🖥 ✔️ I hope so! 🥰 I want these little Unschooling Peptalks to be shared far and wide! 🗣 → Maybe you're like @kithhomestead who told me just this week that this podcast was what got her family on steady ground. She added that listening to it for so long helped her grow her confidence in unschooling and let go of her worries. 🙋🏻♀️ That makes my heart so happy! 💞 Tell me below - really, I want to know: 🎙 Are you a podcast person? You like using your podcast platform? 🖥 Are you a YouTube person, and this is great news for you? 👓 Are you a blogpost person, you'd prefer to read the transcript at the website, get PDFs, etc.? Or just tell me you want the link and I'll DM it over to you! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolinglife #unschoolingmom2mompodcastButton -
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BRAINSTORM TIME! How unschoolers make plans!💛 I love this Guide so much! Just when we think we know all about our kids and their interests, something shifts! This Brainstorming Guide will help you stay connected and tuned into what they might like to try - an Unschool Planning tool FOR THE YEAR! ✓ Unschooling inspiration ✓ Journaling prompts ✓ Resource links ✓ 45 pages! ✓ Only $15 This will help you remember fun things everyone wants to try, Life gets busy and so often, we forget! Right??? This will be your reminder! Its such a fun way to collaborate with the kids - you’ll love it! Put #BrainstormGuide in the comments and we'll DM the link to you. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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💁♀️ Let me show you how unschooling could really work for you! 🙌 This self-guided course we'll defintely jump start your journey, get you the information you need, and help propel you to where you want to go! 👣 We've got a special deal for the month of January. 🗓️ Normally $149, it's now $99! Save $50!!! 💥 Discount Code: 99 Put #CourseSale in the comments and we'll send you the link. ⤵️Button -
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In honor of Rubber Duck Day!!! 🤣 Don't miss other fun celebrations every day of the year with the Strewing Calendar! Put #strewing in the comments and we'll get it over to you. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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💡📚 🗓 🧠 January = Brainstorming Time! Now's the time to get with the kids to see what kinds of things they'd like to do in 2024. 🏡 And if you're not sure what your next step should be, let me show you what kinds of things unschoolers do instead of lesson plans! 😳 I have a Guide that can help you too! 🙌 🔎 Brainstorming Time! has 20 different categories designed to help you plan activities AND involve your kids in the brainstorming process. It's a wonderful way to get them more engaged in the ideas while also giving you insights into their interests. 🥰 Each category comes with additional information, providing a deeper understanding. Let's embrace the real learning that happens in the day-to-day aspects of life - perfect if you're looking around thinking, "OK, now what?" 🤔 🤷🏼♀️ Whether or not you're currently unschooling, this guide can be a valuable resource in planning a fulfilling and rich life with your kids throughout the year. 🗓 Even longtime unschoolers can start to run out of gas, so to speak, needing some ideas to spark some enthusiasm! 💥 You're not alone in this! 💞 ⬇️ Put #BrainstormGuide in the comments below and I'll get the link over to you in DMs! 💡I'm excited to help you kick off 2024 with your kids in a way that is totally individualized to your family! 🎉 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Unschooling Days: A Glimpse Inside! 🏡💡 Ever wondered what an unschooling day looks like? Dive into the unique world of unschooling, where each family crafts their extraordinary journey! 🌟 👨👩👧👦 Explore the freedom, flexibility, and joy of unschooling – no two days are the same! Discover the magic of tuning into your child's interests and embracing flexibility for a uniquely yours experience. 🌞🚀 🎙️ Join us this week for a special podcast episode delving into "Unschooling Typical Days"! Gain insights and inspiration as we discuss the beauty of connection, learning, and individualized paths. 📻✨ 💬 Let's share your unschooling experiences below and let's celebrate the magic of connection and learning together! 🌍💕 Happy Unschooling and Happy New Year! 🎉 ⬇️ Put #Days into the chat and we'll send you the link to the podcast PLUS the transcript, all the resources you need AND a free PDF for you to create your OWN Typical day! 😳🙌Button -
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🤔 Have you been conditioned to believe that you cannot do both - have fun and learn? 😖 Maybe you were told that playing was a "waste of time?" 📱 Maybe you continuously hear that "kids on screens" are wasting time! 🖥 Yes, we can dig into the controversy that talking about technology causes. But I want you to back up a little bit more than that. I want you to think about how often you were told that HAVING FUN was something that was either Bad or was something that had to be earned - by enduring something uncomfortable or dreaded. 🍦 Most of us grew up like that, right? Dinner before Dessert? It made us want that that dessert even more! 💡 I want you to ponder the idea that when we have fun - tons of learning happens. Our brains relax and open to new ideas and connections. ⚡️ And THAT is the environment that unschooling creates. 💥 🙅 Learning isn't drudgery. So let's stop teaching our kids that they have to ENDURE it before they can get to the good stuff. Learning weaves through every activity that your child enjoys engaging in. It's up to parents to notice it though!❗️ ➡️ These kinds of conversations happen in my membership group every week - you're always welcome to join us. 💞 Put #confidence in the comments below and I'll get you the link for more info. 🎮 And if you just want a little help reframing how you think about technology, I have an Unschooling Guide to help you do that! It's really awesome too! Put #TechGuide in the comments below and I'll get you the link for more info about this too. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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It's only 8 days into the new year, and this time of year can bring up some feelings. Let us know how you're doing. Also, if you're stumped on some ideas on how to jumpstart your year as an unschooler, put #Brainstorm into the comments and we'll send you the link to our Brainstorming Guide. It's a great tool to help jumpstart your mind in thinking outside the box. Tell us below... which are you? 💪I'm feeling great! Nothing can stop me! 😓I'm grateful the holidays are over. Now I can breathe. 😬I'm okay. But I feel like I could use a little help. 🤷♀️I've got a basic idea, but no idea how to get there. 😭I have absolutely NO idea what I'm doing or how to even get there.Button -
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🎓🌟 Struggling to see the educational value in everyday activities? Our Everything Counts eBook is here to guide you! 📚💡 EVERYTHING Really DOES Count! ✔️ This Everything Counts ebook offers a little coaching and then shows you how to find familiar subjects weaving throughout daily activities. So many examples - this is going to put your mind at ease! 💛 Put #Everything in the comments and I'll get the link over to you asap!Button -
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Grown unschooler and licensed therapist @royadedeaux is hosting a Vision Board Workshop on January 9th. It’s going to be so much fun! I’ll post this in the stories so you can grab the link - or you can always DM Roya! @royadedeaux #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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💁♀️ Let me show you how unschooling could really work for you! 🙌 This self-guided course we'll defintely jump start your journey, get you the information you need, and help propel you to where you want to go! 👣 We've got a special deal for the month of January. 🗓️ Normally $149, it's now $99! Save $50!!! 💥 Discount Code: 99 Put #CourseSale in the comments and we'll send you the link. ⤵️Button -
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For those of you second-guessing yourself about unschooling, what's the hesitation? Come to today's First Friday Free Webinar! I'm sure I can point you to some resources to help you figure this out! Tell me where you are with this! ⤵️ Put #TypicalDayWebinar in the comments and I'll send you a link to sign up. This will get you reminders, notifications, and the link for the webinar. See you at 1PM Central!Button -
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Wishing you all well! 💛 This is a great list of blessings for 2024! 💫 Do you have any that you would like to add? Tell us below ⤵️ 🌻 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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I made something for those who sign up for the webinar tomorrow! 😁 A FREE PDF! If you're wondering: 🤔 What's a typical day actually like? 🤔 What do unschoolers do all day? 🤔 How do I make something like this work? That's what we're going to talk about in this month's FREE unschooling webinar! 🙌 ⬇️ Put #TypicalDayWebinar in the comments and I'll send you a link to register! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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💥THIS FRIDAY! Free Unschooling Webinar 🎉🙌 What's a Typical Day like for Unschoolers? One of the changes you'll see from me in 2024 (and I have a few!) is that on the First Friday of every month, I'm going to do a 🗓️ QUESTION OF THE MONTH about Unschooling! ➡️ For Free! ➡️ For the entire community! ______________________ A FEW QUESTIONS that I know will come up... ❓Where will you do this? On Zoom, possibly YouTube Live if I can figure it out. ❓Will there be a recording? Yes, at YouTube. ❓How long will this last? My plan is a 20-30 minute presentation with some time for questions after. No more than 1 hour. ❓Are you giving anything away? Yes! A free PDF to help you. ❓Can we ask questions about the topic? Yes! ❓Can we make suggestions for future Questions of the Month? Yes! Send me a message or email me at Coaching@SuePatterson.com Put #TypicalDayWebinar in the comments and I'll send you a link to sign up. This will get you reminders, notifications, and the link for the webinar. See you Friday!? I hope so!Button -
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You ARE Enough! Everything doesn't always go as planned. In fact, LOTS of things don't go as planned! So please don't beat yourself up and assume that everyone's else's family is cooperative or that you're somehow lacking. Parenting is full of ups and downs. Find some joy in little things that go right and let the rest go for next time! ;) #UnschoolingMom2Mom🌻Button -
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January is here! 🎊 🎨 Could your creativity use a boost? ⏰ Maybe a *little* structure in your learning? 🗓 This calendar works for kids (and adults!) of all ages! It's simply a celebration for every day of the month. ✨It's a perfect example of how the learning and fun all weave together! The calendar focuses on one topic each day and we'll send you links to help you dive deeper! 👩🏼🏫 Relaxed homeschoolers who aren't ready to unschool find the ideas perfect and love the private portal with subjects identified for every day! 🙋🏻♀️ Parents still knee-deep in deschooling will appreciate the private webpages that show all the subjects that are associated with each celebration. (I'm determined to help you all see through this unschooling lens! The learning is there - we just have to notice it!) Only $5/month! 👀 💥 Available in 6-month and 12-month subscriptions 💥 INCLUDED in the Creating Confidence Membership. 💥 1 month free when you purchase the Jumping Into Unschooling Course Perfect for families who are feeling disconnected or wondering if they're doing enough, Life DOES provide so many opportunities to learn! 🤔 👇Put #calendar into the comments and we'll get you the info over to you. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻 #unschoolingmom2momButton -
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I hope you all have a wonderful and safe New Year's Eve! Do you have plans? Do you have NYE traditions? Share them below! Here's to 2024! 🎉 #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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OK... about the New Year... How are you feeling? Tell us in the comments below - you're not alone! 😵Exhausted 🤩 Excited ⚔️Ready for Battle 😱TerrifiedButton -
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It's nearing the end of year and it's time for those resolutions! Tell us in the comments... - What are your resolutions? - Do you have resolutions when it comes to Unschooling? - Or maybe you do the "Word" thing? - Or no resolutions at all? _______________________________ I do have some resources that could help, if you're looking for something to wrap up 2023 and get you going on 2024... 📱 You can learn more about unschooling through the blogposts and podcasts - they're all at the www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com website. 💡 You can take the Jumping Into Unschooling course - on sale now - and get a good understanding about how unschooling works. It's fast and thorough - perfect for those who need info quickly but want a solid foundation. 📞 Or you can hop on a call with me in the next couple weeks and I can answer any questions you have. I offering half-hour calls ($75) through January 12. ⬇️ Put #quickcall in the comments and I'll get the calendar link over to you asap! ⬇️ Put #CourseSale in the comments and you'll get the link and $50 discount code in your DM.Button -
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A Brene Brown reminder as we wrap up the year! #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button -
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Ready to celebrate 2023? Our "Retrospective Planner for Unschoolers" is here to make it a breeze! 🚀 📅 Month by month, let's revisit all the awesome moments that made this year special for your kiddos (and you too!). 💗 Worried about doing enough on this unique journey? 👈 Let's look at favorites and preferences - plus noticing all the progress from this time last year! This planner's got your back—it's your built-in reassurance! 🤗 Grab yours now and focus on what truly matters! ✨ Put #NewYear in e comments below and I'll get the link over to you in your DM. #unschoolingmom2mom🌻Button
